So to give a background story, i have 2 biological siblings and we’re all adopted to one mother. My “mom” wants to kick me and my brother out soon because she can’t afford the house we live in currently (a whole big topic/story). She’s taking my little sister with her who just manipulates her and is kind of a puppet master and is broke and jobless(17). I had nothing growing up and i live as if i’m poor. I save all of my money. I recently purchased a car but my brother(22) is still struggling in life and has a spending addiction. We work at the same place and the car i bought i share with him but he still (after around 6 months) doesn’t have money for a car…
Growing up and becoming adopted made my social anxiety worse but i’m aware of it and trying every single day to make it better especially now that i’m a manager at a fast food place i can already tell i’m improving day by day. It’s currently early October as i’m writing this and i’ll be kicked out sometime in early November because my mom isn’t paying anything on the house we’re in now. I’ve always been independent but i don’t think i can afford anything around where i live while still in high school and working full time. It really gets to me mentally and stresses me out.
I love helping people and working but my mom who has early onset dementia doesn’t see that i guess? I’m not really close with anyone in my house except my brother. My sister backstabbed me (another topic/story) and all she does in my house is smoke pot with her deadbeat boyfriend all day and my mom allows it. I don’t have many friends because i’m not really social so it’s not like i can go anywhere plus i don’t really wanna seem as if i’m a burden after all… I’m really not sure what to do, I may have to live in my car, i don’t have anyone in my family that i know which sucks and i feel as if i hit a dead end at such an early age.
I thought about dropping out and getting a GED because i want to pursue a career in computer science and i don’t really need school for that if i am able to self teach myself, but, then again, i’m not sure. I’d love to be set up financially and i’m not sure how to do it. i already have 50% of my money invested in stocks long term because i love to save and invest money for my future. if there’s any advice on what to do or where to go please send any advice my way because i love to learn new things from people who either have been through tough situations like this or can just see the situation from a broader view.
Submitted October 08, 2021 at 01:44AM by bruhineedhelpplz https://ift.tt/3iFOQiY
