Hello all! So I am going to try and explain this as best as I can. I am a 19 year old commuter student, living at home with my two parents. When I was 9 years old I got into a car accident and was given $12.5k in a settlement. As time has passed the money has come into my possession as I am of legal age.
My parents pay for most of the critical things in my life. Such as car insurance, my car, college, food (for the most part), and all the typical parent stuff. Well recently my mom asked if she could borrow the $12k for a few months and she’d pay me back in January. I said okay as long as they fill out a contract. I only asked for a contract because they did the same thing with my sisters settlement money, but they never paid her back and claimed they put it in an account for her. My sister is now 25 and claims to have never seen that account.
After asking for a contract my parents became irate, saying I don’t respect them and trust them and saying that I disgust them. They refuse to sign a contract over the money and so now I refuse to give it. They have no cut off all funding for my life, including college, food, all that fun stuff. So my question is what do I do from here?
Do I give them the money and hope for the best? Is the relationship already fucked and I can’t go back? Do I drop out of college and avoid the debt, find a job and try and live alone off of that?
In reality I’m just a lost kid looking for help. I don’t know what to do and I have no plan. Thank you to anyone who helps.
Submitted September 28, 2019 at 07:33PM by MrTubzy34 https://ift.tt/2ofQrmB
