a few weeks ago I came home and my s/o of 5 years informed me that he hates all of my hobbies and everything about me and that he basically wants nothing to do with me. This happened very suddenly and unexpectedly, and we recently bought a house together (co-borrowers, FHA loan) not even a year ago.
To add a bit of background, the house is located in an area to be close to his family. My family and my job are an hour commute away. Basically, we bought there for him. I pulled my entire life savings for the down payment, and I pay all the bills, so I don't have much cash in the bank (I don't make enough money to pay for everything as that wasn't our original plan, so I've pulled what's left of my savings to cover his half - he occasionally gives me partial payments). Since we've only been here about a year, I fear that there's no way to get out of this house without getting royally screwed financially. He doesn't make enough money to take over the loan on his own, and even if he did, I'd still lose my down payment. While I do love the house and neighborhood (relative to nearby shopping centers/parks) I don't have any other reason without him in the picture to live so far from my family & job, plus it's just a house of bad memories now.
I guess I'm looking for advice on what to do with the house? Do I just sell it at a loss? get a roommate and hold on to it long enough to at least sell it at a profitable price? I'm completely lost...
[Edit] I do have the option of moving in with parents, however, I'm nearly 30 so I don't know if that's a good idea.
Submitted July 03, 2017 at 02:59AM by smfbj http://ift.tt/2uB4GQO
