I'm shopping around for a mortgage and have been talking to three different lenders.
I went in to see one guy and have him run my numbers and see what he could offer me.
When he finished calculating he asked me how his interest rate compared with other offers I had gotten and I told him honestly that it was in the ballpark, but slightly higher than the other two.
Then he said, "well, give me a reason why I should give you the best rate possible."
And I honestly didn't know what to say to that. In the end I think I said something like, "well wouldn't you want to offer me the best rate possible so I have an increased likelihood of using you for my mortgage?"
And he kind of laughed at that and started talking about how he hates working with people who only care about the numbers and people need to understand that there's a lot more to a mortgage than just the lowest interest rate, etc.
To be honest, it was really strange and off putting to me. Why would he tell me to "give him a reason" to give me the best interest rate possible?
Was the number he gave me not the best he could do? What could I have said to him in that situation that would have satisfied his question?
I'm just a little baffled and looking for advice about what he meant by that and how I should respond in the future if I'm ever asked a similar question.
I'm assuming this is something to do with mortgages that I must not be understanding. It's my first time buying a house, so this interaction really caught me off guard.
Submitted March 09, 2017 at 02:53PM by I_play_trombone_AMA http://ift.tt/2m7xQTJ
