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I created a new profile to remain anonymous.

I recently learned I am a beneficiary in my grandmother's will. The total amount may end up being around 100k, but at this point it is unknown. The thing is, I'm unsure of who I should share this information as well as the money with. My father has already passed away, which made me, not my mother, the next in line as a beneficiary. I am currently using loans and my work income to pay for my way through college, so this money would be very helpful in minimizing the debt i would have by the time i finish.

As background financial info of my family:

  • My mother does not have a lot of money and could use some financial help fixing her car and possibly other things.

  • My step father is in the same situation, but would have less need for financial help

  • My sister (who is not a beneficiary) is also in college and accumulating a few thousand each year in loan debt.

Ultimately, i feel undeserving of the money, and i don't know what to do. I feel like I should help my sister and mother out, but I dont know what is appropriate. I think I would be happy if I could fix any car or house problems my mother has as well as make it so my sister doesn't need to take out school loans.
Would it be better in a retirement account that i pretend isn't there?

Can you please help me /r/personalfinance ?
Thank you in advance for any advice you can give.
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Submitted August 03, 2017 at 09:17PM by anonymoswindfall http://ift.tt/2u9GitL

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