I feel like I know what’s going to happen, but I just wanted to get this off my chest. Maybe some advice could help.
My dad fell hard into depression and he’s become an alcoholic. I don’t know all the details since I don’t live with my dad anymore but he’s apparently missed nearly a whole years worth of mortgage payments. He doesn’t pay any bills, my step mom has to help him with paying his phone, energy, food, etc. She’s 100% an enabler and I’ve told her to leave him already. He’s also self employed and barely works nowadays.
I’m honestly afraid my dad is going to end his life… he’s threatened this multiple times. I honestly don’t know what to do, he knows he’s going to lose the house but chooses to get drunk every single day. I’ve talked with him multiple times in the past with the end result being our relationship deteriorating. It scares me to know that he will end up homeless… or worse.
I guess my only question is. If I can help his drunken behavior, what can we do about the house? Or what should be the first steps if we did an intervention and tried to get things back in order?
Submitted November 23, 2022 at 03:34AM by myalienagenda https://ift.tt/lqoDng6
