I want to offer something meaningful to my friend of 15 years. I know she cares about sustainability and meaningful gifts - I don't see her often and probably won't be a huge part of the baby's life, even though they mean a lot to me. I want to get something thoughtful and lasting, not toys or clothes they will grow out of. I don't know if I will have my own kids and I have enough disposable income to do this.
It is a bit unconventional - I am not a godparent or aunt. Has anyone done this? Is it too invasive?
I will of course ask her at some point but I also feel like she will say "omg no!" because it seems like a lot/people don't really talk about finances.
Also, what is a normal amount/arrangement for a college fund?
Submitted September 08, 2021 at 10:51PM by amberbunny93 https://ift.tt/2YveQq8
