So to start... I’ve been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we even have a 2 year old daughter. We are very happy together and I would love to marry her. The problem is that there is something in my head that won’t let me propose because I’m completely afraid of the costs of getting married and having a wedding.
In no way is my girlfriend asking for a crazy extravagant wedding but she is going to want something for our friends and family to come and have a good time which I completely understand. I really do what to propose and marry her as well, I just know that as soon as I do, that’s when the planning starts to come in and everything will become overwhelming and I can’t process in my head having a one night party that’ll put me in debt.
Am I overthinking this and just need to be talked off of the ledge?
Submitted November 06, 2018 at 07:51AM by hangingaround44 https://ift.tt/2OuaDrZ
