My parents, mainly dad, seem to only care about money. Are you rising the property "ladder'? how much money are you making? i help people's mental health for money (im a therapist) and his only question about what i do is "how many punters this week?" When i decided to set up on my own and work from my town on the edge of london instead of in the city, he said i was unambitious. I feel like this is the 1 relationship that stops me from feeling free to live my life according to my values without fear of others opinions. and yet i have to acknowledge that he is the reason why i'm able to afford to go solo. he helped me buy my home which will have lodgers who i will rent rooms out to and another room from which to see my clients. So his money grabbing attitude to life has made it possible. But he's such a nasty human being and i want nothing to do with him. He's just one constant stream of negativity and disapproval but i feel like by saying this im just a spoilt brat. I know that a simple and less financially ambitious life will lead to more happiness (provided that i can live) and i resent his pressures on me because his way of living will lead to massive unhappiness.... but he has given me so much. Thoughts welcome
Submitted October 04, 2017 at 05:09AM by danielson1987 http://ift.tt/2gauVJ3