Hello all! I'm a very long term lurker and really need your help. I've pretty much simplified my life to the neccesities, and am very happy with everything, except...family. My family causes me a lot of stress because they are very inactive, both mine and my husband. I am seriously contemplating cutting them off. I live 2 hours away from everyone and for the last 12 years, I have been the only one making the drive to visit. If they do come to my area, they do not visit. When we ask them to visit, they always complain about the drive or say they won't be able to do so because they are busy. But I have a life too, and they try to make me feel guilty when I don't visit, saying they will miss out on my children. They all can afford the travel and have better vehicles than ours.) They never show support, but always wants me to help them. I had a fullterm stillborn and non of my family showed up...parents nor siblings. Sorry for the rant; I'm just tired of the selfishness.
Will anyone give me some advice as to how to handle it?
edited to add question.
Submitted July 28, 2017 at 05:06PM by PlantBasedHottie http://ift.tt/2h9Muf0
