I am 26male and last year I married the love of my life, with that been said due to wrong advice and bear pressure I got In to a lot of debt. for the first year I was paying all the bills by myself with no help from no one. She was studying while I supported her we got pregnant had a baby, for the past couple of weeks my wife started getting money from the government for the child it's called parental payment where I live. I took two weeks off from work to help her with the kid for a while, her mom is helping us with the kid as well which I appreciate, today out of no where we had the biggest fight because my wife and her mom planned what she should do with her money but me and the wife we talked and planned things but she wants to save her money and only help me certain amount of the huge debt I am in and she keeps saying I want to control her and her money and I am intimidated because she has money now , I don't know where this is coming from all I said was let's plan things as a family pay bills as a family and save as a family. Any ways things have gone so bad we argued we said the word divorce out of anger, I don't think it's over but it's hard, I think her mom has to do something with this but she says it's not that. And she just wants to feel she can manage her own money and just contribute once a while, while she saves for a car. What should I do
Edit; for grammar.
Submitted July 12, 2017 at 08:33AM by nothing0988 http://ift.tt/2u83YOe
