Ok here's the deal, my father passed away just a few days ago and left everything to me...he did state in his will that he would like me to give my older brother (he's 50), who is homeless (by choice) and an alcoholic, 5 grand and left it up to me how to distribute it, and in all actuality he really left it up to me to make the ultimate choice on whether to give it to him or not, didn't say i had to but he would like me to....now the problem, i can't just give him 5 grand, he'll lose it, waste it on alcohol and other dumb shit (we once got an inheritance of 1000 dollars from our G-Mom and he used it to buy a cassette player, a couple of cassettes (i know one was Brittney Spears, lol), lots and lots of beer, some World Weekly News rags, and about 3 months rent to live in the back of someone's car), i have literally, in the past, followed him around and just picked up loose money that was just falling out of his pockets while he was on a bender. He has no bank account, not sure if i set one up he even has an ID to use it and if he were to get one he would probably lose it anyway. If i slowly trickle it to him he is gonna bug the shit out of me and be up under me all the time (i have a 60+ hour a week job, family, band, not a lot of time for bullshit), hang around my house, perhaps even try to live in my yard or frequent the neighbors yards, he has done this in the past to both my dad and I even after repeated requests to stop, and ...while this sounds callous on my part, the day you have lived in my shoes and dealt with all the bullshit that my dad and I have dealt with dealing with my brother you can talk shit, it has been a nightmare going on 20 years, he will not help himself and has no self respect or respect for others or their personal possessions...anyways my problem is, i wanna honor my dad's wish but i haven't the first clue on how to do it to benefit of either of us...sorry grammar nazi's but my mind is frayed, i have endured a lot in the last 2 days, worst of all finding my father dead in his bedroom yesterday morning, sorry if this seems like 1 long ramble as the last 2 days have been 1 long ramble in my head so please, any help is appreciated!!!
Submitted April 08, 2017 at 01:36AM by ghoulland http://ift.tt/2oiohFq
