Hey all, sorry if this isn't the right place to post but here it goes. Back in Feb I made a post as to seeking guidance to help possibly sell houses and take my grandpa in as his health was really deteriorating. Previous post is here if you care to read: Previous Post.
My grandpa sadly passed away on May. 20th and I can't find a will... I tried everything. Here's the catch though, he was my grandpa/dad as he raised me but he isn't my blood. He was there before I was born and as stated took custody/raised me. He has two daughters from his first marriage whom I've never seen, spoken to , or met in my life. They had a major falling out before I existed (1986 or older). I'm scared as it was always me and him, I took care of him when he visited, fly down to FL twice to help him and keep his bills up to date and was the PoA for medical purposes until his last breathe. I was there every step of the way, always have been and even though it was verbally stated numerous times over the years in jokes or even arguments that I get everything when he dies... I can't find it in writing. I don't want his daughters to come out of hiding after 3 decades to claim his property and defile my grandfather's memory and I'm so lost on what to do or how to possibly fight. My names everywhere for medical stuff and I was obviously the only one there during his last few months too. Thankfully I did find his life insurance which has me listed but as for the house, car , bank accounts I'm out of luck. This isn't even about the money, it's about his wishes and his memory. Please anyone who can help me... I'm so depressed and lost.
Another thing I forgot to mention. I have a home in NJ, which my grandpa's name is on since my credit wasn't the best. Sadly it being a pre-built home and it's a loan/not credit I wasn't able to be added to it. I'm also at risk of losing my house too since my name was never on the loan even though I paid the 20% down payment, bills, monthly costs, and so on... this is seriously destroying me as I have no other family, and nowhere to go if this all goes badly.
I'm sorry anything I missed feel free to ask.
Submitted May 29, 2021 at 09:49PM by Lento17 https://ift.tt/3vBb22f
