So recently my girlfriend officially enrolled in nursing school which means the financial burden has become mine. BIG MISTAKE... so over the last couple of months I’ve been trying my best to support her financially meaning paying for her car,insurance, food cellphone and rent.(we live together) That’s my job right ? But when does it become too much? Lately we’ve been arguing about money because she just spends way to much of it, for example she spent 280 dollars between food gas and eBay in a week... i try and make a budget for our expenses but she gets all upset and angry “maybe I’m bitching to much” she just doesn’t get the concept of a dollar amount .. and truth is she never has, recently I’ve found out she’s behind on her car and has been hiding it from me ... cool no problem but it’s become super frustrating to not have a partner on the same financial brain wave as me especially feeling somewhat taken of advantage of and not appreciated ... do i leave after 4 years.. can she be changed ? Would i be wrong leaving when she’s in school? Does anyone have any experience with this? ..... it’s almost as if she’s costing me more then benefiting me .. what to do ?
October 22, 2018 at 07:35AM
