I'll try to spare unnecessary details. It simply hasn't sunk in yet, he was in his mid 50s. My Dad was the sole breadwinner. My Mom, early 50s, has lupus, isn't able to work, has tons of doctor bills, and needed insurance through my Dad.
We should get around 430k from life insurance. His pension, my guess is 250k, should transfer to her and he had about 450k in his 401k. She better have a lot of years left, so what would be the best way to extend whatever money we get for her care? Does she qualify for disability or medicare/medicaid? I'm honestly lost and these last few days have been such a blur that I just need some guidance.
Anything to point me in the right direction is appreciated. If there's some other details you need to know that I neglected just comment them and I'll try to add them as soon as I can.
Submitted January 31, 2017 at 01:56AM by slicedbreadd http://ift.tt/2jOpEZF